If you want to give your girlfriend or boyfriend one of the best sensual massages around, you should book one of our girls! No… We’re just kidding, you can do it yourself of course, but you might need a little help to set the mood. We’re going to give you a few tips today, so we hope that helps. We are also very aware that there are women who read our blog articles in order to find better ways to keep their men happy, so if you’re one of them, welcome, we’re glad to have you here!
Mood and music
All sensual massages have to begin with the right mood. This is easy to set, but it’s often overlooked. It’s easy to just lay your partner down on the bed and start massaging them, but you need to build the excitement and anticipation. Did you know that subconsciously your partner can get an enormous amount of pleasure and excitement merely from the fact that you’re making this effort. Pick some music that they like and make sure it’s not heavy rock or something that’s fast etc. It needs to be slow and sensual basically.
The lights need to be right too. Sensual massages simply aren’t sensual in a brightly lit room! Now, not everyone has mood lighting in their homes, but you can get around this by burning a few candles. They don’t have to be anything special, but scented ones are nice. Don’t use too many scented candles however, because they can soon become overpowering.
Obviously if it’s your partner your massaging you can use scented aromotharapy oils. We always offer an option of unscented oils during our sensual massages, for obvious reasons of course! If you’re unsure about which oils to use, a simple Google search can help. Lavender oils are very relaxing, but there are plenty to choose from that can heighten moods. We’re happy to advise you about which oils we use if you come to see one of the girls.
This is obviously very important. If you’ve been to see one of our girls before, you’ll know what they do and you’ll be able to recreate it. However, if you’re a woman reading this and you want to know what we would do with your guy, we do have some very basic words of advise for you. No, you don’t just grab his penis and bang away at it! You have to concentrate on his entire body. Use a mixture of gentle and firm strokes, make them long and sensual (that’s the idea!) Overall, the most important part is to try your best to become one with your partner. You do this by paying attention to the way they react to your touches etc. Sensual massages can be a very useful way to really get to know what switches your partner on. When you work your way to his or her genitals, be gentle above all else. You’ll feel when the time is right to adjust your grip or pressure etc.
Book one of our sensual massages
It doesn’t matter if you’re a man or a woman, we do both here at Chase Massage London. Call us if you have any questions, we’re always happy to help!